To Whom You Place Your Life Experiences Responsibility?

"A man sooner or later discovers that he is the master-gardener of his soul, the director of his life."

James Allen

Do you take on you full responsibility for what it is your life or do you blame the others?

Do you believe in your right to take on you full responsibility to create your future?

Perhaps since you was a child somebody inculcated in you the conviction that it was precisely your duty to have to first of all help the others and that your objectives and desires were secondary.

For this reason felt you selfish when you think first to yourselves?

You perhaps believe to be able to be happy only if you are in love of someone.

There is nothing bad to be in love, personally I have rather lived several beautiful romantic and sentimental histories, but while I was living her I felt me terribly dependent from the women that I loved.

If you make to depend your happiness on the others, is giving them the power to create you or to destroy you.

Many divorcés (among which also me same, I admit) they have rebelled to this kind of conditioning.

Some people are considered victims of the life.

They are convinced that all of this that happens is out of their control.

Until you won't feel you responsibility to the 100 percent of your life and of your experiences, in the good and in the evil, you won't succeed in moving you of a single step.

This is the first and the hardest obstacle to overcome in the walk of personal growth and self-learning.